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A Happy Story Of Love: As Ismail Akande And Kawthar Abdulazeez Say Yes To Forever Together

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Feb 22, 2024.

Love, they say, makes a person whole and gives crisper meaning to life. If the infectious smiles of Ismail Akande and Kawthar Abdulazeez on Sunday, February 18, 2024, were anything to go by, their lifelong commitment to each other has undoubtedly made them whole.

It was an unforgettable day for the lovebirds who have found joy, happiness, and solace in each other. In the presence of their families, friends, and well-wishers at Irfad Central Mosque, Golden Valley Academy, opposite School of Science, Sabo, Oyo, Oyo State, the couple vowed to love each other and stay by each other’s side till death do them part.

The exchange of vows also marked a significant moment in the religious journey of Ismail and Kawthar according to the officiating clerics who noted that the couple fulfilled one of their responsibilities as Muslim faithful.

Newlyweds Ismail Akande and Kawthar Abdulazeez

At the event monitored by Eko Hot Blog, Imam Rofil Adisa rejoiced with the Agba Akin Ashamu and Akande families for gifting their children to Godly and responsible families.

“We thank God for our eyes. Our children are the eyes of a good parent. We thank God that these children have chosen well,” he said to the groom and bride’s families.

“Thank God you found a good family to gift your child.”

The groom, Ismail Akande and his family and friends

The cleric emphasised that Ismail and Kawthar found a good thing as they fulfilled Allah’s sunnah to come together and start a family.

Imam Adisa was also unequivocal in his charge to the groom to take care of his wife to the best of his ability, urging him not to be one of those men who run after other women while their wife languishes at home.

“This marriage is a fulfillment of Allah’s sunnah. As you fulfilled God’s commandment, you must also fulfill the responsibilities that will make this sweet,” he said.

“Some of the responsibilities include taking care of your wife well. Some men have not taken care of one and they’re already chasing another. Don’t be like them. Take care of your wife and let her family thank you for it.”

Ismail Akande and Kawthar Abdulazeez

The cleric further implored Ismail to be faithful with Kawthar and be patient in dealing with her.

“Your lifestyle is now different and you have to adjust accordingly. Women are not created complete, therefore, you must be patient in living with her to avoid offending God through her,” Imam Adisa stated.

“Your wife is your responsibility and you must treat her accordingly. Don’t offend your mother through your wife. And don’t offend your wife through your mother. Don’t be stingy; be open with your finances.”

The cleric did not leave out the bride in his brief sermon, counseling her to respect her husband and his family now that he is her ‘head’.

“Kawthar, your husband is the head. Showcase your good character in your husband’s house. His order is greater than your parent’s. Stay with God and fear him. As your mother is close to God, so should you be too. You must take your religious service seriously. Also, you must respect your husband’s family,” Imam Adisa charged.

The bride, Kawthar Abdulazeez

He concluded his sermon by praying to God to keep the union together till death comes between them.

“We pray for beautiful children, sons and daughters for the couple,” the cleric added.

Afterwards, Ismail and Kawthar exchanged their marital rings and signed their marriage certificates alongside their families.

In the end, the couple were filled with bright smiles and laughter as they posed for photographs to create memories of the most special day in their lives.

In an interview, the groom, who is a reporter with Eko Hot Blog, expressed his utmost excitement at the significant step he had taken.

“I feel great. I feel fulfilled. Given how everything happened within a short period of time. I’m very excited to have finally turned this corner,”Ismail told our reporter. “Alhamdulilah!”

Asked if he had words of advice for other young men dreaming, but hesitant, of taking a similar step as he had done, the newlywed urged them not to be afraid as the risk is worth taking.

He, however, urged them not to allow themselves to be pressured into making the lifetime commitment.

“Advice? Well, there’s nothing to be afraid of. It’s a big risk, given what we know of modern marriages, but it’s one worth taking when you find the right partner,” Ismail said.

“Nobody should be pressured to make this lifelong commitment, but I feel people should set realistic standards.”

See more photos from the Nikkah ceremony below: