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“My ex-Wife Is A Pathological Liar” {Family Circle Episode 3}

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3 years ago

Sep 12, 2021.

"My ex-Wife Is A Pathological Liar" {Family Circle Episode 3}

Last week on our second episode of Family Circle, we presented a rebuttal from Mrs Joy Famutimi, the embattled ex-wife of the Proprietor of Eagles Towers Schools who was accused by her ex-husband of refusing to relinquish her position as the sole administrator of the school despite having separated from her husband a few years back.

In her rebuttal, Mrs Joy listed her ex-husband’s alleged atrocities which she believed were inimical to the growth and progress of the school. According to her, it would serve everyone’s best interest to sell off the school since this protracted conflict with her ex-husband has continued to hurt the reputation of the school, and consequently, its stock.

In this latest episode, Mr Famutimi comes back with a rejoinder of his own, disputing his ex-wife’s claims and lodging fresh accusations of his own.

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The Separation

Joy moved out of my house on the 13th May, 2015 in protest that I exposed her criminality at the meeting held in her office on the 27th April, and the lies that she moved out on my house because of my infidelity.

Before our separation, we held only one meeting throughout our years of living as husband and wife.

So you are lying to say that various meetings had been held with family members and that you don’t know which of the meetings.

Joy please state one of such meetings and the names of my family members in attendance b4 you moved out? You are a pathological liar.

Anyway the meeting where I exposed your criminality was at your office, by 9.30am on the 27th of April 2025 and the followings were in attendance.

My snr brother, Rev Feyi Famutimi, my friend F K Lawal and chief Ladi Ogundeji, my Pastor, Niyi Adeyemi, and C a C Pastor on our streets, your brother, Mike Isichei and the school VP, Mrs. Yemisi Aina, whose husband was aware of the plans for the meeting.

Ownership of Eagles Towers Schools

On the ownership of the the school: at least least you should say something, or it’s the courts that will say you or I owned it? Or that we owned it jointly?
I’ve started how bought the lands and built the school without N5000 from you.

I stated that I sold 7of my properties in the course of building school and also in paying loans, and that 4 of the properties were within 400 meters on the school which you sold on my behalf.

I’ll state the names of the buyers,:
The 1st was bought by Jare Adio.
The 2nd was bought through Chief Fred Ojei.
The 3rd by Obinna Ofoezie on our street.
While the 4th was bought by Mr Anipupo of our estate.

You said you paid DIVIDENDS to me over the years, PLEASE SHOW EVIDENCE. The amount paid and when. I want all of us to see it. Please show how much I collected even for 3 years.

As a pathological liar which you are, how come that you were building 3 different houses in different places, while I was selling mine, and at the same time you are helping to sell 7 of my properties?

How come that before I married you l had 9 properties besides Eagles Tower School, and from my marriage to you, I couldn’t built nor acquire any other properties ?

So before I married you, there were no women in Nigeria that I can lavish my money on?

It was only from when I married you that my eyes was opened to see that there are women out there to lavish my money?

Children’s training

Concerning my grown up children education, 3 of them have graduated from private universities between 2010 and 2015.

I was the one paying their school fees from 2006 till 2009 when i left the Bank. ln fact I used the #600k I received as severance package to pay for the September resumption of 2 of them.

In 2011, I have to borrow money from 2 friends of mine, Wale Kolawole and Bayo Sodade to pay the school fees of the last 2 in August 2011 and l couldn’t repay back the loans until 2019.

In January 2014, my late friend kigho Oghwie gave me #500k to pay for the last one of the 3.

So the little that filtered into the payment of their school fee from ETS account cannot be up to #2m. If otherwise, Joy please show evidence. At least they are not paid in cash?
At the same time, even if the whole school fees came from ETS, I’m i not the owner of the school?

As to the Chicago house, and the population of the school. Between 2011 and 2016, the school population was more than 600 and now that you’ve chased most of the parents away because of your social lifestyles and their hatred for you, the population has reduced to a little of over 200.

Don’t forget that in in 2009 alone, I saved N6 million in your bank account with First bank PLC, which you released to me in batches between late 2009 and early 2010 when I was doing oil and gas business after my exit from the bank, before I was duped in the later part of 2010. I stated this in earnest that they were dividends paid to me from the school.

Payment of dividends from the school’s purse

Also please state how much (with evidence of payments) I received yearly from the school?
Then in 2013 when you sold the last of my property to Mr Anipupo, I forced you to give me N1 million from it to develop my house in Ondo.

I also remember that in late 2015, I received a total of N2.5m from the school in 3 batches of N1m, N1m and N500k.

Please show evidence of any other payments to me I 2009,2010,2011,2013,2013, 2014, 2016,2017 and 2018 before you started RUINING the school?

This same Joy gave her higher amount for her wedding and also took Aso ebi from her, but she didn’t show_up physically for the wedding as she attended another social elsewhere as seen on the social media where she always feature regularly.

Alleged infidelity

When Joy was flirting all over Agege, Ikeja, etc, what she tells her friends was that I’m old and I cannot satisfy her on Bed.

According to her, me that cannot satisfy her alone on bed, how come that I befriend the students, the Teachers , the cleaners and the female parents? I must be a super man or something is wrong somewhere.

To round up this nonsensical issue, I’ve confessed to my close friends and pastors that Joy was the last woman l touched ( not hugging or gave a peck o ) between the night of 12th and 13th May 2015 , the day she packed out and for 6 years running now and up till now, I’ve not touched any woman ( The God and Jesus Christ which I serve is my witness )

So if I can keep myself from immorality for more than 6 years when my house is free to entertain such. How come that I befriended everyone even while she was with me and I wasn’t free to do such?

The other day she claimed I acted as father for Tessy during her marriage this year _ Terressa was brought to my house by Joy in 2010 and she adopted her as her sister and friend. She’s an Igbo girl like her.

She work on the Island and from 2010 till 2015, she come to our house regularly to spend her weekends. All her siblings knows our house and they too sometimes pass the night in our house.

Joy invites her often when we have social outings and the 3 of us go out together. Everyone close to us knows her both in the school (ETS) and in our neighborhood. All my grown up children and the younger ones know her and liked her.

On few of the ocassions where we have to book hotel room, Joy more often persuade me to let the 3 of us sleep on the same bed. Terressa stopped coming to my house the moment Joy moved out in 2015.

She got married this 2021 in Benin and Lagos. I attended the Lagos ceremony and I gave her little sum for her wedding and that was all. when has it become an of fence to attend wedding?.

Let Joy show the pictures of the wedding, If I was ever on high table nor was at the Benin traditional.

Months after, when she packed out of my house, she fetch Tolu back to her. They were so uncomfortably close. It was from my little kids that I heard that Tolu sometimes sleep in mummy’s room over night when non of her numerous boyfriends sleep with her.

Joy is a very strong willed person. She’s always in charge in any relationship with her various amorous partners. You can only come to her when she wants you to. Otherwise she will send you back.

Others acts that made me to believe they are lesbians was that Tolu never liked any of the men that sleeps with Joy despite their regular hand- outs to her to receive Joy’s favour.

Tolu too never liked any of Joy’s female friends and she’s never happy when Joy goes out for her regular socials. Other house maids from Benin don’t spend more than 1 year with us, but Tolu had been with Joy since 2014 till 2020 ( 7 years ). They were so close.

For your information Joy, I have no skeleton whatsoever to hide which you can use to blackmail me.

I didn’t embezzle money, neither did I defraud my bank. I didn’t kill anyone nor did anything fetish. I’ve been a lover of people and God from my youth even though I did what Boys and men do at the appropriate time, but I’ve left those “normal” long ago.

So if you employed 1000 hungry Bloggers to disparage me, it doesn’t matter to me.
I’m not a politician nor a socialite, as a normal human being, I’m okay.

Joy, I’ve suffered in your hands in the last 10years. Of the 9 properties I owned before I married you in 2005, you and I have sold 7 of them at your prompting during your times with me.

You keep you’ve said it severely that KAKA KEKU MA JE SESE, A FI SE AWADANU which means if you can’t possess it by all means, you will rather destroy or waste it,
For your information, you can only destroy properties, but not my life.

Now that I’ve stated my plight over the years in your hands, am now at peace as I’ve handed the rest over to my God.

Statutory rape allegations

Concerning Ayomide, my niece and my daughter, who stays with me with 2 of my biological children, (niece) a kind of girl to pray to have. Neighborhood and Teachers ( including Joy’s brother Mike in ETS ) talked gloriously about her and parents use her as a good example of a well brought up girl in the neigbourhood.

She wrote her WAEC in Sept/Oct 2020 because of the pandemic.
* She scored as follows : Maths A1, Eng C4, Commerce C5, Account C4, Book keeping B3, Economics C4, Government C4, Yoruba B2, Civic Education B3.

By December, LASU gave her admission to read a fine course having scored 240 in her JAMB (the highest any of my biological children, 5 of them) has ever scored.

So that was the girl I raped regularly since 2016 when she was only 12 and after Joy had left my home 1 year earlier and after I have sworn to my God and Jesus Christ that Joy was the last woman I had anything amorous relationship with since 2015 ?
I know the reason for her hatred for her , but I won’t belabour my readers anymore . May the Good Lord judge between me and Joy speedily. Amen.

Further accusations

Finally, I will not go to court on what I owned 100% even though she might have changed the documents being a first class criminal.

I will still refuse to state her criminal acts here even though it was revealed to lots of people after the meeting of April 2015. The communities elders saw the documents, all her siblings are fully aware of it.

I’m keeping it from the public because of the debt of love I owed her just like I owed others and for my beautiful children sake who will still come back to me sooner than later.

From the audio record of her phone call to me on Monday 9/8/2021, it will be clear to the public ( I know that since 2015 and I’ve told her severally ) that her intention was to take over ETS from me completely and and sell it because she can’t stand the heat that will follow her action if she wants to run the school in my absence. But since she had not been able to kill me nor sell the school behind me, she wants to destroy the school and that was why she poured out all the venoms inside her.

However, I will assure you Joy that you can’t kill me. If you close down the school, my life will not end there. I could still build edifice like Sheraton Hotel. But be assured that your judgment will soon come ( it may be delayed but would not tary ) the whole world will see it and many will be forced to believe in the Power of God through Jesus Christ.

Public appeal

In conclusion, the heading of this write up is. HELP ME BEG MY WIFE- MRS JOY FAMUTIMI (NEE ISICHEI) and that is the exact reasons of my going public for the people reading or hearing it to beg you for me.

I’m not interested in exposing you or ridiculing you, even to little I said was in response to your bunch of lies in response your response to my 1st massive.
As the public are reading it, they are begging you for me as no one will want what happened to me or what you a doing to me to be done to them or any of their children. Even my enemies (I don’t know them) are begging you to please GIVE ME MY THINGS BACK.

However, if you closed down Eagles tower Schools as you threatened, you have no medal or Trophy to receive, though it will be a NOVEL ABNORMALITY, and it will be on record for POSTERITY.

The saying goes thus WHOSOEVER OPEN A SCHOOL, CLOSED A PRISON.

I’m also using this medium to call your club members- LAGOS ELITES LADIES CLUB of which you (Joy)is the vice president .

I’m appealing to your President, Ayinba Mojisola Gani Adams to talk to you. I also want Alhaja Abimbola, Mama Damorish in Agege, Mrs. Awe – Mobil oil dealer, Baby Elite and all other members to talk you out of this obsession to do evil to the one that made you what you are today.

I’m also appealing to through this medium to your siblings (of which you are the last born),Emanuel Isichei, Tina Isichei, Mike Isichei and Ngozi Esan) to talk you out of this madness.

If you carried out your threats of writing or talking to the parents that ETS is not resuming, and you close down the school, you should know the numbers of workers- Teachers, Sanitation staff, security staff, drivers, Book sellers, suppliers and many others that will be affected negativity. You are living larger than while there workers are just earning a living and you want to truncate that? They will surely PRAY for YOU. The inconveniences you will also create for parents and pupils will be better imagined than experienced. They too will pray for you.

As for your desire to become Actress and play to the public, I refuse to be your corresponding Actor. You are acting a script, while I am saying and doing the truth/reality. I wish you good luck in your new endeavours into Acting.

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