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Never Discuss These 5 Personal Things With People, For Your Own Good

EDITOR’S PICK: 

It is good to share one’s experience with others as it creates room for the exchange of opinions and a better approach to tackling situations, however; there are some personal things that should not be revealed because of the level of sensitivity involved.

In other words, there is certain knowledge a person should not disclose about themselves because of the tendencies of gossip, betrayal and public ridicule.

So in this article on EKO HOT BLOG, we would be looking at some personal things you must never discuss with people.

1. Your relationship issues

Discussing your relationship issues or giving details of your misunderstanding with your partner to others might give room for gossip and interference.

Whatever disadvantage partners are experiencing, it should be resolved quietly without introducing a third party. Doing otherwise might amount to more misunderstandings and conflict. It is only in cases of violence or abuse a person can draw the attention of trusted individuals.

2. Your income or financial worth

Your income and net worth aren’t things you should make public under any circumstance. Revealing your financial details to others might amount to people taking advantage of the situation.

For instance, there have been reported cases of theft and fraud against different individuals simply because they couldn’t keep their account balance private.

3. Your good deeds

If you have done something remarkable, you should not be in a heist reveal it to everyone who cares to listen.

You can as well tell a few people, but the idea of drawing the attention of everyone to it might amount to pride. Being humble is a virtue that will most likely attract the recognition of others, especially your superiors.

4. Your weaknesses

There are cases where people confide in others about their weaknesses and they ended up being betrayed.

Disclosing your vulnerability to others might most likely give them the chance to take advantage of the situation and hurt you. If you need to discuss your weakness with someone, probably to help overcome it, it becomes necessary to seek the help of a counsellor or a trusted person with high integrity profile.

5. Your past mistakes, most especially a stigma

Oftentimes, most people are betrayed by friends, close associates, colleagues and even family members in this particular area.

The idea of discussing your past mistakes, especially a stigma with friends might likely increase the chances of others knowing about it.

FURTHER READING 

If you are worried about an experience, and you feel the need to discuss it with someone, probably to relieve you of the emotional burden, tell it to someone you can vouch for – most likely your parents, spiritual leader or professional counsellor. Revealing your past mistakes to everyone might amount to regret.

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