- Oyakhilome explained that when a man views his wife as his mate, it may lead to disappointment and frustration when she falls short of expectations.
- Pastor Chris Oyakhilome advice has sparked conversations on social media, as people discuss and debate the concept of a husband considering his wife as his first daughter.
- He made the statement during a sermon earlier today
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, General Overseer of Christ Embassy, recently shared his perspective on marital dynamics, encouraging men to regard their wives as their first daughters rather than as their mates.
Eko Hot Blog reports that the statement was made during the March 30 sermon and has since generated a range of reactions from the public.
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In his teaching, Pastor Chris highlighted the importance of grace and understanding in marriages.
Oyakhilome explained that when a man views his wife as his mate, it may lead to disappointment and frustration when she falls short of expectations.

Instead, adopting the perspective of seeing one’s wife as a daughter fosters a more compassionate and patient approach in the relationship.
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome advice has sparked conversations on social media, as people discuss and debate the concept of a husband considering his wife as his first daughter.
While some have appreciated the message of grace and empathy, others have expressed differing views on the topic.
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He said; “Take your wife as your first daughter, more than as your mate. If you take her as your mate you will be offended at the things she does because you expect more from her. If you take her as your daughter, you will be gracious and you will overlook all the nonsense.”





