- She also disclosed that her loyalty to VDM once pushed her into attacking fellow influencer Vee Iyele online
- Phyna said she strongly believes the shift is connected to her association with controversial social media activist Martins Otse
- According to Phyna, Iyabo Ojo used to show consistent support by liking and commenting on her posts across social media platforms
Reality TV star Josephina Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, has opened up about the apparent strain in her relationship with Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo, revealing why the actress no longer relates with her as warmly as before.
Eko Hot Blog reports that the former BBNaija winner made the disclosure during a live session with her fans on social media, where she spoke candidly about changes she noticed in Iyabo Ojo’s attitude towards her over time.
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According to Phyna, Iyabo Ojo used to show consistent support by liking and commenting on her posts across social media platforms, a gesture she said suddenly stopped without any direct confrontation or explanation.

Phyna said she strongly believes the shift is connected to her association with controversial social media activist Martins Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan (VDM), whose online activities have often put celebrities at odds.
The reality star admitted that the development made her feel that Iyabo Ojo no longer had the same affection for her, noting that the change was noticeable and emotionally unsettling.
She further revealed that her link with VDM did not only affect her relationship with the actress but also triggered conflicts with other individuals online, including influencers, dragging her into public disputes she would normally avoid.

“I feel mama doesn’t like me that much again because before she used to comment on my posts and like them, but now she no longer does. I’m very sure it’s because of that dirty boy,” Phyna said during the live session.
She also disclosed that her loyalty to VDM once pushed her into attacking fellow influencer Vee Iyele online, a move she suggested was driven by emotions surrounding the controversy.
VeryDarkMan, known for his frequent confrontations with celebrities and public figures, has remained a polarising figure in Nigeria’s online space, often sparking debates that strain personal and professional relationships.
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