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I’m not Enjoying S€x With My Husband, I feel Irritated – Lady Laments on Social Media

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Jan 7, 2025.

Adeleye Kehinde

I'm not Enjoying Sex With My Husband, I feel Irritated - Lady Laments on Social Media

My husband only comes when he wants s€x
He stopped beating me because our kids are grown
He doesn’t spend on me

A 45-year-old woman has taken to social media to lament the unruly attitude of her husband towards her.

Eko Hot Blog gathered that the woman claimed she isn’t enjoying sel€x with her husband as she feels communication gaps has reduced between them.

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The woman who Oster anonymously on a Facebook page called ‘Life’ shared that she belongs to different Facebook page and has tried different advises yet none has worked in her marriage.

She wrote;

Hmmmmmmm I feel like ranting now, I just wanna rant maybe my heart can be free.

I have been married for 27 years now with 4kids. I will 45 this year while I married at 18yrs. I had my last child at age 25.

My parents made me married him and bcs I was underage then I got used to him by loving him and can’t stay a day without him even though I’m not sure if the love is mutual.

As time goes on I started getting irritated with his behavior towards me and the kids, his nonchalant attitude is to the highest level.

We hardly have time as husband and wife except whenever he wants to have sex. From the beginning there was no money but when the small money leta come his behavior changed from 40% to 10%.

Honestly I was not enjoying it and can’t complain much bcs once you do he will turn it as an insult and the next will be beating.

Though he doesn’t beat me again because our kids are all grown now. And let me say this that I have not seen him with any other woman bcs I don’t even suspect him.

I'm not Enjoying S€x With My Husband, I feel Irritated - Lady Laments on Social Media

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I am married but I’m living like a single woman. But to be honest the love is no more there, I don’t feel anything for him again. We don’t discuss as couple only when he needs sex. I’m not even enjoying the sex again.

He is okay in business but can’t ever pay any bill in the house unless I do it or I pay 60% of the bills. I am dying in silent bcs I’m not the type that tell people about me.

There’s no relationship group on Facebook or Instagram relationships page I didn’t belong to at least to try things that I haven’t tried before.

I called him several times to discuss about it but he will never give me a listening ear, he will rather put radio on .

The worst is my daughter is of marriageable stage but afraid of marriage bcs of the her father behaves. She once asked the dad that if she bring a man as him home for marriage will he be happy.

Infact I’m thinking of giving up in this marriage bcs I’m exhausted already. He have traveled for over a week now he never for once call us we are always the one calling him.

I’m trying in business and each time I want to live I will be afraid what I’m going to face out there, what will people say about me.

Even my children have advised me to move out for like a a month or two to see if he will miss me. But I’m afraid.

I don’t know what to do again.He doesn’t even give me money for food except on weekends when he will just give me 5k and yet I don’t complain bcs thats not really my problem,all I want is for him to be happy with me.

For over 5 or 4yrs he only keeps 5k on weekends. No single wrapper in my box that I can tell you he bought since I got married to him but I’m not complaining bcs God is blessing me too with my business.